In a small Spanish village two hours north of Barcelona, a small theater decided to take on the big economic crisis in its own small way. They called it the "carrot rebellion".
In rebuke of the government's new tax increase for theater tickets (amongst the many tax increases) which raised the tax from 8% to 21%, this theater decided to sell carrots in lieu of tickets. Carrots, considered a staple item, are only taxed at 4%.
Imagine a sight of people, each holding a carrot, lined up to see the show, casting a hopeful light on the future economy? Now, it's true I have an affinity for carrots. They symbolize rooted values. They add raw color and shape. They give you good eyesight. What better ticket to see the world with? Some critics of the movement called it tax evasion. I call it clever and resourceful. Quim Marce, owner of the theater in Bescano, Spain, calls it a "way to survive". Bescano's theater's new motto is For the Health of Our Culture. The shows must go on!
Tickets can be purchased for 15 euros (17 USD) at the door.
And as another "carrot" aside, our friend and farmer, Frank, says, in response to all of the local town's new construction of farmlands, "They're sure as hell not growing carrots and beets"!
We need carrots, my friends. Purchase yours now!
:)Bess
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Sunday, October 14, 2012
Saturday, September 8, 2012
Amateurs Have Way More Fun!
I feel like a forever amateur in many areas: blogging, gardening, surfing, writing...however I kinda like it that way. There is something about the excitement of always having something to learn, and the anticipation of the unexpected. When one is a novice, there are fewer expectations, and so more often than not, I am thoroughly pleased and excited about the outcomes.
Lets take surfing for example. Michael signed me up for a surfing competition/fundraiser a few weeks ago. My initial reaction was panic, followed by a reluctant smile and brave face. I couldn't wear the cool t-shirt if I didn't participate. He assured me it was casual and fun. I wasn't convinced. I have never surfed with many people at once, competing for a wave. I could only imagine the surfing videos I've seen and I couldn't imagine myself in it. The day came, and the forecast was in my favor...no waves! Instead we would paddle out to a buoy and back...that I could do confidently. Many heats were before mine, and as the winds picked up, so did my chances of having to catch a wave..uugghh, except that I was starting to get into the enthusiasm of the event. I also had to be a positive role model for Meg...she was watching and envisioning herself on that board next year. I would have gladly given her my spot, but she wasn't ready yet. The atmosphere was casual and fun as Michael promised. The vintage boards were cool to see, we were sitting amongst the awesome dunes of Cahoon Hollow, and the water was warm.
It was time for my heat, and it was certain that I would now have a chance to catch a wave alongside fifteen other women. My nerves now calmed by the sea and man I love, I ran into the water carrying the twelve foot vintage board, and paddled...this was fun. Around the buoy, and ahead of the others, I was feeling confident...now I just had to catch a wave...and catch one I did...yay! Then I landed on my rump of which the Cape Cod Times caught a perfect picture of and put it on the front page of the next day's paper. I wish I was the cool girl with the panoramic picture heading the paper, but, well, that's for the experts.
The garden is another area which gives me great amateur pleasure. My Carrot Friends poem says "A carrot is hard to grow/" All summer we have been watching and waiting for ours to grow. Last summer we grew them with minimal success...most of them looked like full-figured minature doll legs. This year we had higher hopes. We had pulled a few finger-width and length-sized ones, but they weren't quite ready. Today, we dug with our fingers around the circumference of our largest carrot to date...it .was a real-sized carrot, almost two inches in diameter. We were ecstatic. "Should we? Pull it?" Yes, it couldn't possibly get much bigger. We gathered all its ferny stems for a firm hold, gave it a little apprehensive yank to loosen the soil, and pulled. Out it came, with a swift release, because it only had one inch to reveal. It was actually shorter in height than it was in diameter. It was a stubby stump of a carrot with two straggly roots. We had been duped..The wider a carrot yields no greater a carrot. Our theory to wait until a carrot grows round to an impressive size before picking it fell literally, and figuratively short.
Our grape arbor last year provided me material for another poem, told in prose form, about our encounter with Black Rot. This year, we have been watching dutifully, hoping not to make the same mistakes. Two of the four vines have grown to reach the two Owen-lengths height with healthy leaves stretching across the driftwood ,but no jade marbles or any sign of grapes appeared. However, on the two lesser-achieved vines, merely a foot and a half tall with dry, curled leaves, we found the smallest cluster of purple shaded berries, one on each vine. There was barely enough fruit to feed a babe, less than twenty itty-bitty purple pearls perched on stems, but still fruit, and oh, how sweet on the tongue they were. One was Pinot Noir, and the other Merlot. What a delight to have no expectations, and to be seduced by a mere sip.
Have no expectations, and you shall find treasure. Have a great day! Bess
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
Why I Write
My assignment for today's writing was an unexpected one. I sat down in one of our 1950s Knoll manufactured orange tweed one-armed chairs that we bought at auction because we loved it, despite its only arm being worn and frayed. Its partner is in slightly better shape. Together they make an imperfectly perfect pair like Michael and me. In front of me on our yard sale-found Eames designed coffee table water-marked with glass rings from gatherings gone by, is an old olive oil bottle holding a thrush of full-bloomed red and yellow blended Mikado roses and a copy of Poets & Writers. The roses are beautiful and they urge me to write about them, to relish in their lush layers. Instead I pick up the magazine and browse for any submission ideas. Submissions are the only overwhelming aspect of writing for me. I love writing and rewriting, but finding a magazine or online literary journal that might accept one of my poems is daunting. I happened upon an essay under a segment titled Why We Write. At the end, there was an open invitation to share essays of our own experiences and stories about why we write. There was my prompt.
I took my Moleskine notebook stuffed with poems in progress and filled with crooked, sideways, and messy writing and began a new page. I lost track of time but spent a good portion of it trying to identify the type of roses that were on the coffee table. In the end, I wrote a mini autobiography of how I came to write. it was a bit cathartic. Here are two larger excerpts of my essay:
I did not get a degree in Liberal Arts, instead I opted for
the more practical science degree of Physical Therapy. I studied art throughout
high school and received several local and national art awards, but I didn’t have
the courage or the confidence to pursue it as a career choice. I could be guaranteed a career in Physical
Therapy. I did not touch a brush again for twenty years.
Not satisfied with the strict allopathic methods of treatment,
I leaned more towards the holistic approach of manual therapy. Ten years into
my career, I pursued a certificate in Massage Therapy to complement the
conservative methods. With the license to use my hands holistically, helping
others, I felt like an artist again. I
was able to encourage healing in a manner different that I could within my
physical therapy profession. I established a private practice and it became an
early success. Working for myself gave me the freedom to feel whole and in
control of my destiny, at least career- wise, at least for the present
moment. I did not know that I was on a
trail that would bring me back to art and to love.
I believe that during a massage therapy session, when there
is a trusting relationship, energy channels open and inspiration and healing
flows. It may be the last line of a poem,
an answer to a problem, or oxygen to a tight muscle. Our breath becomes fuller and with each
breath is an opportunity to relax, expand, heal and grow. We take an average of
one thousand breaths a day. That’s one
thousand opportunities. How eye-opening is that?
I was probably only paying attention to one tenth of those
thousand breaths but it was enough to listen to love and truth when they
presented themselves, unannounced. Almost ten years later, I was trying to once
again balance my conservative and alternative selves. With a successful
practice to acknowledge, I was encouraged to take another leap of faith. I divorced from a neutral marriage and let my
heart feel its pulse.
Paying attention to another tenth of the one
thousand breaths, and with the book Love
Poems from God given by my best friend, and a mini CVS steno pad, I began to write. It wasn’t a brush (although I have since completed two water-color
portraits of my children), but it was my hand and my spirit moving creatively
again, and it was liberating. Soon, the lined paper and the size of the steno
pad was too constricting, and I opted for the blank pages of the Moleskine
notebooks...
Three years, nine hand-held and six-and-a-half 8 x11 sized
Moleskine notebooks later, I am still writing. My love and now husband, is a
painter and we have collaborated on several exhibits featuring his paintings
and my poetry. They are collections of shared love and joy we find in the
everyday. I’ve read such classic
writer’s literature books as Western Wind
and Writing Down the Bones and I found an outstanding mentor with whom I meet
biweekly to challenge and encourage me when I have no idea why I am spending
the hours of a part-time job fooling with words. I subscribe to Poets &
Writers, Ploughshares, New England Review and several other literary gems. I do not have a published book of poetry and
all of my submissions to date have been rejected, except for one. Does it count if my husband is a professor at
the university whose literary magazine is the only one that did accept my
poems? It’s okay. I’m still an emerging poet. Aren’t we all emerging somehow? I
hope so.
I spent eight hours writing today, sitting in our studio with Michael painting a few feet away. We swam and worked in the gardens that are heralding new wildflowers, squash, and purple string beans. Today, I feel like a real writer. Its a wonderful way to live..."vissi d'arte, vissi d'amore"
Thank you carrot friends who take the time to read.
~Bess
Saturday, June 30, 2012
Wedding Day Wildflowers Everyday
On the day before our wedding, Michael and I picked bunches of wildflowers from a local meadow. We decorated our home with Black-eyed-Susans, Daisies, Goldenrod, Queen Ann's Lace, and Coreopsis for family and friends that came to celebrate with us.
The days before and the day of our wedding were deliriously colorful. Michael and I painted our shed with wildflowers and words and my best, dearest college friend Carlene was snapping pictures of our everyday love, swimming and running and wildflower picking. The morning of our wedding ( I could not sleep a wink at the inn), I drove back to our home to wake Michael before sunset and we watched it rise in all its pink orange beauty to welcome our day. We then went for one of our blessed early morning swims in Skaket. A few friends and family, other lovers of swimming, joined us.
Here it is necessary to include that we saved a shark. Coming out of the water, our friend Ethan noticed a black dorsal fin moving across the water. He is not a big fan of open water swimming, so this was particularly unsettling for him. Mind you, this was not a big fin, but it was a fin nonetheless swimming in circles, disoriented. With closer inspection, it was about three feet long, blackish on its back, grayish on its belly, with a pointed nose and large eyes. It was not a common sand shark or dog shark that we could tell but maybe a baby Mako shark. Whatever type of shark it was, it needed to get to larger open waters of the ocean side, so Michael walked alongside it guiding it in the direction of the open sea. It finally seemed to find a course and went on its way. It was an exciting story to add to the day.
After all the excitement, I had less than thirty minutes to get back to the inn, change, and return to the beach where friends and family would meet to witness our love and commitment to one another. I kept the salt in my hair, pulled it back, slipped on my glove-fitting Nicole Miller dress, took the simple handful of Russian Sage that Michael had put in the room, and made it just in time to see him dressed in his handsome linen rolled-up pants and shirt that hung as naturally as our love. People close to us were there and our friend and judge Steve married us among the sea, the sand, and grasses, under a cloudless, cerulean sky. It was perfect for us in every way.
We married on the morning of our first collaborative art and poetry exhibit opening at Cape Cod Art Museum, so the day continued to be a joyous and memorable one. We hosted a reception and got to share the collaboration of not only our love, but our art and poetry too.
We created a wildflower garden that represents those wonderful memories and more. When we first sowed the seeds in March, we thought none had taken because we watched robins and finches snack on them. So we planted more. Still we thought none had taken as what looked like a field of weeds were staring at us. Unsure of what green leaves were what, we picked only the certain weeds we knew. Now we do understand that "weeds are wildflowers looking for a home", and I admit I felt guilty picking any weeds, but the monster ones that looked like something from Little Shop of Horrors, well they had to go.
Almost three months later, we have a delightful, airy array of wildflowers in every color that bring joy each time we come home. Every day we see a new poppy pop. We have pink, yellow, and orange poppies, and larger red ones too. There are Coreopsis, and several varieties of Daisies in yellows and whites like Tidy Tips and the African Daisy. There are Crimson Clover, Bull Thistle, Baby Snapdragons, and Baby Blue Eyes with Sweet Alyssum sprinkled about and so many more I do not know the names of. I adore our wildflowers. They hug us with happiness. We talk to them, sing to them, and encourage their place in the world.
Oscar Wilde writes "With freedom, books, flowers, and the moon, who could not be happy?"
I will add art, love, and the sea to the list.
Dear carrot friends, what's on your list of happy things?
Wishing you all things happy!
~Bess
The days before and the day of our wedding were deliriously colorful. Michael and I painted our shed with wildflowers and words and my best, dearest college friend Carlene was snapping pictures of our everyday love, swimming and running and wildflower picking. The morning of our wedding ( I could not sleep a wink at the inn), I drove back to our home to wake Michael before sunset and we watched it rise in all its pink orange beauty to welcome our day. We then went for one of our blessed early morning swims in Skaket. A few friends and family, other lovers of swimming, joined us.
Here it is necessary to include that we saved a shark. Coming out of the water, our friend Ethan noticed a black dorsal fin moving across the water. He is not a big fan of open water swimming, so this was particularly unsettling for him. Mind you, this was not a big fin, but it was a fin nonetheless swimming in circles, disoriented. With closer inspection, it was about three feet long, blackish on its back, grayish on its belly, with a pointed nose and large eyes. It was not a common sand shark or dog shark that we could tell but maybe a baby Mako shark. Whatever type of shark it was, it needed to get to larger open waters of the ocean side, so Michael walked alongside it guiding it in the direction of the open sea. It finally seemed to find a course and went on its way. It was an exciting story to add to the day.
After all the excitement, I had less than thirty minutes to get back to the inn, change, and return to the beach where friends and family would meet to witness our love and commitment to one another. I kept the salt in my hair, pulled it back, slipped on my glove-fitting Nicole Miller dress, took the simple handful of Russian Sage that Michael had put in the room, and made it just in time to see him dressed in his handsome linen rolled-up pants and shirt that hung as naturally as our love. People close to us were there and our friend and judge Steve married us among the sea, the sand, and grasses, under a cloudless, cerulean sky. It was perfect for us in every way.
We married on the morning of our first collaborative art and poetry exhibit opening at Cape Cod Art Museum, so the day continued to be a joyous and memorable one. We hosted a reception and got to share the collaboration of not only our love, but our art and poetry too.
We created a wildflower garden that represents those wonderful memories and more. When we first sowed the seeds in March, we thought none had taken because we watched robins and finches snack on them. So we planted more. Still we thought none had taken as what looked like a field of weeds were staring at us. Unsure of what green leaves were what, we picked only the certain weeds we knew. Now we do understand that "weeds are wildflowers looking for a home", and I admit I felt guilty picking any weeds, but the monster ones that looked like something from Little Shop of Horrors, well they had to go.
Almost three months later, we have a delightful, airy array of wildflowers in every color that bring joy each time we come home. Every day we see a new poppy pop. We have pink, yellow, and orange poppies, and larger red ones too. There are Coreopsis, and several varieties of Daisies in yellows and whites like Tidy Tips and the African Daisy. There are Crimson Clover, Bull Thistle, Baby Snapdragons, and Baby Blue Eyes with Sweet Alyssum sprinkled about and so many more I do not know the names of. I adore our wildflowers. They hug us with happiness. We talk to them, sing to them, and encourage their place in the world.
Oscar Wilde writes "With freedom, books, flowers, and the moon, who could not be happy?"
I will add art, love, and the sea to the list.
Dear carrot friends, what's on your list of happy things?
Wishing you all things happy!
~Bess
Sunday, June 17, 2012
Little Ducks
Michael and I have just survived ten days straight of teenagers, lots of them! First we had our niece Hannah from Houston, TX with two of her friends, all graduating high school seniors, spend five days with us as their graduation present. We had fun taking them to our favorite Boston spots, the MFA, The Union Oyster House, and Mike's Pastry. Of course, we took them to our training ground Walden Pond, where they chose to shop in the gift shop rather than join us for a swim...our New England waters are a bit too cold for them, They went strawberry picking, ate ice cream which apparently is more of a New England thing than a Texas thing...its more about frozen yogurt there, and the remaining three days we spent on the Cape Cod seashore, from Orleans to Provincetown, touring lighthouses, and beaches, teaching them to surf, and of course, more shopping...it was a treat for them to buy t-shirts from all the different areas, especially the Cape Cod black bear shirt ( highlighting the first ever known black bear to be seen on the Cape).
We dropped them off at the airport on Sunday, and on Monday we were carting ten students back to our home in Orleans, to host Art of the Sea Endersession educational/recreational/cultural week for Megan's high school. We taught ten more eager teenagers to follow Emerson: "Live in the sunshine, swim the sea, and drink the wild air". We surfed, we ran, we clammed, we swam, we biked, we saw a fantastic play called The Hound of the Baskervilles complete with backstage tour and meeting of the performers, we talked of art and poetry by local Cape Cod artists and poets such as Charles Hawthorne, Hans Hoffman, Mary Oliver, and Stanley Kunitz, and did sun salutations at sunrise.
In these ten days, we listened and observed this upcoming generation, and were impressed at the intelligence and grace in which they are handling the growing pains and decisions facing teenagers. In light of the uncertain economy, social stressors, and shaping identities, all of the teens we "hung out" with demonstrated thoughtful and optimistic plans for their future. It is refreshing to see the hope and dreams in their eyes.
At one of our sunset reflections with the ten students we observed them from a distance. Michael sketched them and I wrote. Some of my thoughts for a poem:
Ten in a row, like ducks
without their mother, wondering about the world,
sitting, feathers tucked, quiet.
Three waddle to the water, stray
from the row beyond wonder and warmth
to feel the cold spray.
Four find the rocky edge hard
against their soft, white feathers.
Two more lost in the grasses
try to find their way.
And one remains, still
sitting, feathers tucked,
content with the setting sun.
They will find their way, their center, their carrot friends.
xo Bess
We dropped them off at the airport on Sunday, and on Monday we were carting ten students back to our home in Orleans, to host Art of the Sea Endersession educational/recreational/cultural week for Megan's high school. We taught ten more eager teenagers to follow Emerson: "Live in the sunshine, swim the sea, and drink the wild air". We surfed, we ran, we clammed, we swam, we biked, we saw a fantastic play called The Hound of the Baskervilles complete with backstage tour and meeting of the performers, we talked of art and poetry by local Cape Cod artists and poets such as Charles Hawthorne, Hans Hoffman, Mary Oliver, and Stanley Kunitz, and did sun salutations at sunrise.
In these ten days, we listened and observed this upcoming generation, and were impressed at the intelligence and grace in which they are handling the growing pains and decisions facing teenagers. In light of the uncertain economy, social stressors, and shaping identities, all of the teens we "hung out" with demonstrated thoughtful and optimistic plans for their future. It is refreshing to see the hope and dreams in their eyes.
At one of our sunset reflections with the ten students we observed them from a distance. Michael sketched them and I wrote. Some of my thoughts for a poem:
Ten in a row, like ducks
without their mother, wondering about the world,
sitting, feathers tucked, quiet.
Three waddle to the water, stray
from the row beyond wonder and warmth
to feel the cold spray.
Four find the rocky edge hard
against their soft, white feathers.
Two more lost in the grasses
try to find their way.
And one remains, still
sitting, feathers tucked,
content with the setting sun.
They will find their way, their center, their carrot friends.
xo Bess
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Thursday, June 7, 2012
Cloud Flats
There are sand flats that we are graced to witness frequently at our beloved Skaket Beach in Orleans. I love to observe the flats, especially while gliding over them with each stroke taken in the celestial salt waters. Skaket Beach has especially pristine flats, easily seen in the creamy water days when the sea lulls the sleepy shores. They spread for miles when tides are low and one day we were able to convince our friend Steve, a talented local potter, to meet us in the early morning hours to make an impression of them with plaster of paris. To our delight, he showed up, and with wheelbarrow, two-by-fours, and plaster in tow, we found picturesque flats to frame and mold. We shaped clay into the impressions and made a unique Skaket Beach sand flat bowl for us to cherish and to hold. Michael and I were married on Skaket Beach in 2010 and it continues to nourish us everyday, if not with salt, in spirit.
Today, while swimming on one of these creamy water days, I noticed the clouds above mirroring the reflection of the flats. I will call them cloud flats. They shared the same rippled movement, the same contours of our spine spooning. Their whites woven with blue, like waves lapping the shore. Michael painted such a scene, once, spontaneously by memory, with the same blues and whites and lapping lines. It stayed here in our studio, forgotten, leaning against the corner wall. Today, I saw this painting in the sky...cloud flats...and now it hangs in our newly renovated bathroom with an aqua wall that was waiting for this painting.
Nature reflects its beauty in the hearts of sky, land, water, and us! Our spine and sinew, which holds our posture strong and flexible, is figure-lined in the dunes, and sand flats, waves and clouds. A reminder of the continuum we exist with. A welcomed knowing of the threads that weave our soul.
Carrot friends, embrace the figure lines of nature, of our soul!
xo Bess
Today, while swimming on one of these creamy water days, I noticed the clouds above mirroring the reflection of the flats. I will call them cloud flats. They shared the same rippled movement, the same contours of our spine spooning. Their whites woven with blue, like waves lapping the shore. Michael painted such a scene, once, spontaneously by memory, with the same blues and whites and lapping lines. It stayed here in our studio, forgotten, leaning against the corner wall. Today, I saw this painting in the sky...cloud flats...and now it hangs in our newly renovated bathroom with an aqua wall that was waiting for this painting.
Nature reflects its beauty in the hearts of sky, land, water, and us! Our spine and sinew, which holds our posture strong and flexible, is figure-lined in the dunes, and sand flats, waves and clouds. A reminder of the continuum we exist with. A welcomed knowing of the threads that weave our soul.
Carrot friends, embrace the figure lines of nature, of our soul!
xo Bess
Sunday, June 3, 2012
With a Little Help From Our Spider Friend
It never ceases to amaze me how nature finds a way to balance itself ...and us.
Michael and I were enjoying an early morning breakfast on the deck with our niece Paige who was visiting. We made her our favorite homemade oatmeal mixed with yogurt, granola, and berries, alongside juice and fresh coffee from our latest travels to North Carolina. Paige was filling us in on her freshmen year experiences at University of Vermont and she was happy. It is energizing to talk to a young adult who is happy with where they're at and where they're going. Paige has decided to switch majors from NeuroScience to Biomedical Anthroplogy...who even knew that was an option? Sounds exciting! Spring is in full bloom and the feel of summer was felt in the warm breeze coming across the table. We remarked how glorious of a morning it was...what joy...we're all smiles. The breeze gets breezier and brings pine needles down upon us...pine needles and something else pelleting our skin, like seeds of some sort. We are curious to what is blowing in the wind and it takes a delayed second to realize that what is falling down on us is moving...teeny, tiny white worms, all curled in fetal position, landing on our arms, in our hair, in our oatmeal and juice...literally, there were hundreds of them...think Hitchcock here.
Okay, so gross. A delightful morning turned horror film. We scurried indoors, picked off any of the curly critters we could find, and searched for them on Google. Bagworms or Winter Moths...both like Birch trees and Pine trees, both of which have boughs hanging high above our deck. We have since found out that they are Winter Moths and after they chomp on all the leaves they can find, these Eric Carle caterpillars will burrow in the ground and hibernate until Fall. Ugghh!
We have now found them, bigger and plumper, foraging away at our beloved roses. Winter Moths also love rose bushes. This is not good. The Birch and Pine trees are bad enough but the delicate rose bushes have us worried. We pick them off and squish them by hand...much easier to stay calm around these Hitchcockian creatures when they are not in hordes. Daily, we find at least a dozen...but yesterday we noticed a most intricate silk thread design between the lattice fence and a rose leaf...a spider friend has come to save the day. This is how nature figures it out. Worms eat rose bushes, spiders eat worms, and the beauty of nature prevails. Can it be this simple? I think often times it can. It may not be as perfect as a red, red rose,but we too, can figure it out. We do have the insecticide with the picture of the worm handy, but our friend Charlotte taught us nature's greatest lesson...patience.
This leads to one of our other trials of gardening...our first year wildflower garden...trying to recreate a wildflower field reminiscent of the field we pick from, that Michael picked from on the morning of our wedding. We sowed seeds from several packets eight weeks ago and believed all we had were weeds. I know many of you feel that a weed is a wildflower looking for a home, and that can be true...but these were not flowering weeds, and, well, we wanted a colorful wildflower garden. The spiky Candida Thistle were not yielding to be picked for an airy bouquet. Not all weeds are created equal (but that's writing for another day). Here comes the patience part....we discovered a poppy in our field...it was rolled into a little orange conical hat, and there were several of them. Today they opened to the sun.
"Adopt the pace of Nature. Her secret is patience."- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Have patience carrot friends!
Michael and I were enjoying an early morning breakfast on the deck with our niece Paige who was visiting. We made her our favorite homemade oatmeal mixed with yogurt, granola, and berries, alongside juice and fresh coffee from our latest travels to North Carolina. Paige was filling us in on her freshmen year experiences at University of Vermont and she was happy. It is energizing to talk to a young adult who is happy with where they're at and where they're going. Paige has decided to switch majors from NeuroScience to Biomedical Anthroplogy...who even knew that was an option? Sounds exciting! Spring is in full bloom and the feel of summer was felt in the warm breeze coming across the table. We remarked how glorious of a morning it was...what joy...we're all smiles. The breeze gets breezier and brings pine needles down upon us...pine needles and something else pelleting our skin, like seeds of some sort. We are curious to what is blowing in the wind and it takes a delayed second to realize that what is falling down on us is moving...teeny, tiny white worms, all curled in fetal position, landing on our arms, in our hair, in our oatmeal and juice...literally, there were hundreds of them...think Hitchcock here.
Okay, so gross. A delightful morning turned horror film. We scurried indoors, picked off any of the curly critters we could find, and searched for them on Google. Bagworms or Winter Moths...both like Birch trees and Pine trees, both of which have boughs hanging high above our deck. We have since found out that they are Winter Moths and after they chomp on all the leaves they can find, these Eric Carle caterpillars will burrow in the ground and hibernate until Fall. Ugghh!
We have now found them, bigger and plumper, foraging away at our beloved roses. Winter Moths also love rose bushes. This is not good. The Birch and Pine trees are bad enough but the delicate rose bushes have us worried. We pick them off and squish them by hand...much easier to stay calm around these Hitchcockian creatures when they are not in hordes. Daily, we find at least a dozen...but yesterday we noticed a most intricate silk thread design between the lattice fence and a rose leaf...a spider friend has come to save the day. This is how nature figures it out. Worms eat rose bushes, spiders eat worms, and the beauty of nature prevails. Can it be this simple? I think often times it can. It may not be as perfect as a red, red rose,but we too, can figure it out. We do have the insecticide with the picture of the worm handy, but our friend Charlotte taught us nature's greatest lesson...patience.
This leads to one of our other trials of gardening...our first year wildflower garden...trying to recreate a wildflower field reminiscent of the field we pick from, that Michael picked from on the morning of our wedding. We sowed seeds from several packets eight weeks ago and believed all we had were weeds. I know many of you feel that a weed is a wildflower looking for a home, and that can be true...but these were not flowering weeds, and, well, we wanted a colorful wildflower garden. The spiky Candida Thistle were not yielding to be picked for an airy bouquet. Not all weeds are created equal (but that's writing for another day). Here comes the patience part....we discovered a poppy in our field...it was rolled into a little orange conical hat, and there were several of them. Today they opened to the sun.
"Adopt the pace of Nature. Her secret is patience."- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Have patience carrot friends!
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
Thin Places
I'm writing from the 15th floor of a chic boutique hotel in the fabulous city of Chicago. Michael and I have been traveling a bit these past two weeks, three states in ten days. Much more than we usually travel, but what a wonderful way to explore and experience life. It does take some mental strength for me to see beyond the hectic schedule- rearranging and allow myself to transition quicker than I like to. As with running or swimming, I do best when I have a chance to warm up before finding my pace. I also face a twinge of mother-guilt when we're not home to share dinner and stories. Fortunately, Meg and Owen have learned how to transition well, between activities, between two homes, and texting has come in handy for staying in touch with their generation. They were able to join us on our trip to San Diego which made all this traveling easier and added a level of value to it because it allowed them to see how and what we do when we travel. Basically, we find a body of water to swim in, we run to become familiar with our surroundings, we eat foods specially known to the region ( fish tacos in San Diego, grits in North Carolina, deep-dish pizza in Chicago), we visit the art museums, look for retro/vintage shops, and whatever else comes our way. Tonight, we have tickets to the Second City Comedy Club which is where many of the Saturday Night Live and other famous comedians have made their debut, John Belushi, Tina Fey, Steve Carrell to name a few.
With all the traveling we do, and we have
been to some remarkable and memorable places like Paris, London,
Barcelona, and Beijing, but none have given me the sense of a "thin
place" quite like the places closest to me. What is a thin place? I only recently heard of it, in an article I read from the travel section in The New York Times. A thin place is described as a
place where “we become our more essential selves.” It is often sacred, but need not be. Its location, population, or its cultural
reverence, does not matter. What matters
is that it both invigorates and calms the senses, a place you feel alive and
safe. You cannot plan a trip to a thin
place. There can be no
expectations. I suspect, only a veil
separates you between heaven and earth, where I imagine, the veil feels like
skin.
For me, the garden is a thin place. So is Nauset beach and Skaket beach, and Herridge’s
Bookstore, and Michael’s skin. These are
places where I can breathe, feel air. I
can let thoughts in my head get wet, rinse, spin out. The colors, the smells,
the textures burst.
The garden is earth and heaven. Dirt under the fingernails makes it
real. Sprinkled seeds in a quarter-inch
row open to sky. Thick, dark soil, full of possibility, smudges my jeans. The
smell of roots, rock, and left-over kale mixes with sun and rain. Always a weed
to pull.
To swim at Skaket beach is to ride across land and sea where
the pink vista hypnotizes, waves sing me a lullaby, and sand flats cast a
spell. It teeters two visions: the verduous depths of the sea and blue
with a sun.
Nauset beach has its own magical way of carrying my bare
feet along the firm sand. I love how it exposes itself like a Polaroid picture
when the tide ebbs. I connect the rocks, casted like stars, with my sandy
toes. Michael runs zig-zag in softer sand
beside me and we stride to the furthest point, free of beachgoers, and free for
a quick skinny-dip. The head of a seal,
like a periscope, is our only witness.
Drive towards Wellfleet Harbor at dusk and you will see the
light on in a little house, piled with books.
Herridge’s Bookstore smells of dust and cedar. I never make it past the
first few feet on my left. Here,the
poetry books sit on disheveled shelves.
Michael finds his place a few feet to the right in the art corner. Two feet behind me are the young adult books, a genre I’ve never
outgrown. The owner, with his easy
smile, chats on the telephone to his neighbor.
In this space, nine feet by twelve, I have all the time in the
world.
Under well-worn cotton sheets, where my form traces his, I find the
space I long for most. Smells of linseed
oil, chlorine( in the winter when we cannot swim open water) and sweat intertwine, and the hum of night seeps in from the
window above our heads, a Christmas candle light still taped to the sill. My essential self sleeps.
I loved the description of a "thin place." It made me think of mine, and realize you don't have to go far to find it.
"It’s a helluva start, being able to recognize what makes you happy.” – Lucille Ball
Thank you carrot friends for allowing the space to speak of matters important to me, and for sharing what I find beauty and truth in, and hopefully inspire you to do too. What are your thin places?
xo bess
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Sunday, March 25, 2012
Carrot Friends
A carrot is hard to grow
my mom used to say,
but never said why.
Feathery greens first, it finds
courage deep in the earth,
pushes upwards, unveiling,
inch-by-inch, dirt-creased, orange flesh.
I have a few, of what I call, carrot friends.
Deep-rooted, wise, they add raw color.
Not like ground-cover,
that crowds, overrides, hides.
Hold a carrot.
Feel its earth, its air.
A carrot is hard to grow,
but I’m figuring it out,
in my garden,
all grown-up.
~from Garden Series I
Life abounds with joy to sustain us. We need to notice. It’s in the moon that cuts a hole-punch in a black paper-sky. It’s in the sea with its calling tide, and sand flats that cast a spell. It’s in the sky, blue with a sun, and in the sip of air-just-right. “Joy is not meant to be a crumb,” Mary Oliver writes, and Ralph Waldo Emerson says, “Scatter joy.” It is with this spirit and it is my hope that this blog, Carrot Friends, will sow seeds of joy, like dandelion snow, land on shoulders, and tickle ears. I wish for joy to echo within nature’s infinite nautilus. The world is filled with many sorrows and disappointments, but in keeping with life’s balance, there is an equal joy to be found. Look and see, hear, smell, taste, and feel.
My husband Michael is a Renaissance man; a professor of law, retired judge, an elite athlete, father, son, brother, and a fine arts painter. I am a therapist, mother, daughter, sister, a woman in love, and a poet, an emerging poet. We found each other in this second half of our lives and now embrace Keats’s kin of truth, beauty, and love. We collaborate and are thrilled when we can exhibit at local museums and galleries. It’s satisfying and fulfills our desire to spread joy. Where there is art, there is hope.
Our most recent exhibit is titled Sustenance and is an expression of how we choose to live our lives finding joy in the everyday. A day well spent is one when we have been creative, active, and sensitive to the simple lines and forces of nature that surround us. We are grateful to have two places we call home. One is near the sea where we run along its shores, swim its waters, taste its salt. The other is in proximity to one of our most literary inspirations, Thoreau’s Walden Pond. We smell simplicity when we run and swim there. We pride ourselves as amateur gardeners and excite in the unexpected trials and tribulations that occur with New England’s unpredictable seasons. Today, a day in mid-March, we hoped to turn the soil, only to wake to a pink sky turned gray turned white with a snow squall. We love art museums, used bookstores, thrift shops, narrow side-streets, farms, oatmeal, fresh bread, and cappuccino. We collect old records, art, and mid-century furniture. We have a beautiful family and dear carrot friends.
I will blog about simple, but extraordinary, things as the moon, the clouds, baking bread, Mom’s soup, the kids, or a sprout. It is easy to take such things for granted, but I try not to, because they sustain me. One of my favorite childhood books is Frederick, by Leo Lionni, about a field mouse who gathers words and colors while the others gather nuts and berries. They think he is foolish, but when all the berries and nuts are gone, Frederick recites the colors of the sky, sun, and grass to get them through the remaining cold days of winter. It’s an endearing story. I will share my poetry and Michael’s art and other inspirations such as a new recipe, books, a creative product, or genuinely good news. Do you ever wonder why we don’t have a channel broadcasting life’s good news?
If you choose to follow this blog, please pardon the simple site. I am not only an amateur gardener, and poet, but blogger as well. I have few skills in the ways of a computer but I know that technology can be a useful tool for connecting like-minds. Feel free to share your inspirations and insight.
Welcome to Carrot Friends! Rich in Vitamin A and beta carotene, carrots heal and help us grow. The world is a better place with lots of carrots.
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